I am about to utter an unpopular – and to some old-fashioned – word: Boundaries. There, I’ve said it, and now you must puzzle over what it means.
Let me give you a small clue. I am not talking about the fours and sixes Glenn Phillips scored at Hagley Oval against India on Saturday. And the Concise Oxford Dictionary provides you with limited assistance with its definition of “a line marking the limits of an area”.
The old-fashioned concept that I am discussing in this commentary refers to limits, or the rules that societies impose on behaviour and communication in order to stop their members slipping back to a life that Thomas Hobbes described as “solitary, poor, nasty, brutish, and short”.
Every society has them. Most societies – not only Christian – generally hold at least four of the Ten Commandments as immutable: Thou shalt not murder, steal, bear false witness, or covert your neighbour’s house/wife/animals. Others move, alongside changes in the social fabric and beliefs over time. There would be a lot of dead people, for example, if adultery still saw miscreants stoned.
Each society has expectations of how its members will behave and those presumptions are not limited to what we might generally term criminality. They extend to the ways we interact with our fellow beings.
Some of these social boundaries are defined by law. In a democracy these laws are seen broadly as reflecting the limits that society wishes to see imposed on itself, although increasingly polarised politics may interfere with that notion. In autocracies such laws are used not for a common good but to confine and control populations.
Other boundaries, however, are tied to the presumption that the rights we claim come with responsibilities. The Golden Rule had been around a long time before Jesus proclaimed that we should do unto others as we would have them do unto us. Boundaries are about reciprocity: We observe them in order to also protect ourselves.
The problem with these boundaries, however, lies in how they are defined…or more to the point, not defined. Many of society’s limits are ‘understood’ as the rules we learn as children, as we enter society and interact with other members of it, and which unique circumstances create by forms of common consent. They are open to interpretation, and misinterpretation. Continue reading “Beware a society that lacks clear boundaries”
